A Sales Growth Company Logo
a

Menu

The Sales Guide to Listening

Keenan
October 18, 2023

Sales, you’re not listening. It’s recently become crystal clear to me that a really ugly pattern has managed to sneak it’s way in to most of your sales conversations. Recently is a little misleading. It’s been happening for a while silently killing your close rates and is indicative of broader sales trends. A good chunk of you salespeople, the people who have been known for years as masters of communication, seem to have lost the ability to listen. Not just listen to sell, but actually listening to learn.

Listening to Sell

I’m going to repeat that to make it abundantly clear, and this is directly to you salespeople, you’re not listening to learn. What’s happening is that, instead of tuning in and truly trying to understand what your prospect is telling you, you’re too caught up in listening to sell.

What do I mean by that? You’re hunting for the keywords or phrases or maybe more accurately waiting for the magic words to fall out of your prospects mouth. “I don’t use video”, “I use this [tech]”, etc.

Once you hear that, lights go off, a bell sounds, you’re just waiting for the opening to weasel your way in. You’ve barely scratched the surface of the conversation and you’re ready to pitch. This is a giant mistake – GIANT.

Customer-First Philosophy

It’s weird. We’ve been talking about this “customer-first” philosophy for some time now. Yet, when we’re out there actually taking calls, we’re getting sidetracked, pushing the product into the spotlight, and preaching at the prospect. We’re so caught up in the ‘what’ that we miss the ‘who’ and the ‘why.’

If you’re trying to increase your sales, you need to do more than just scratch the surface. You need to know way more about your prospect than you ever thought you would.

Get Deep

Start diving into the nitty-gritty. Ask a lot of questions and listen. Now pause, reread what I just said. When I say “listen”, I mean really, truly, actively listening to what your prospect is saying. Soak up every little insight you can. Get inside their world, understand their approaches, methods, objectives, challenges, and problems.

Remember though, it’s not just about the data, you need to understand the context in which all of this is happening. It’s like peeling back the layers of an onion, the more you uncover, the better equipped you’ll be.

 

Stop Being an Order Taker

You’re not paid to be an order taker. We’re here to be an influencer. To do that, you need to listen to learn.

Some Related Content for Ya’
How to Scale a Sales Team in 2025

How to Scale a Sales Team in 2025

Before scaling a sales team, sales leaders need to confirm the organization is ready to support more people, more process, and more pipeline. Hiring too early, without structure or visibility, creates complexity that slows growth instead of driving it. This article...

How to Align Sales Enablement with Execution

How to Align Sales Enablement with Execution

Most sales enablement programs aim to improve performance, but few deliver lasting change. Training is deployed, content is created, and tools are rolled out, yet reps still struggle to execute the fundamentals in live opportunities. The problem isn’t a lack of...

5 Buyer-Backed Sales Behaviors That Drive Trust

5 Buyer-Backed Sales Behaviors That Drive Trust

ASG’s buyer survey confirms what many reps still get wrong: buyers don’t care about liking the seller. They care about whether the rep understands their business, asks the right questions, and offers insight that helps solve real problems. Too many sales conversations...

0 Comments